Debatable thoughts

After a long time I am posting a new entry in this blog. As you all know writing an English blog is not an easy endeavor for me. Please tolerate with my language if you find any flaw.
I won’t say that after a lot of study I have written this but I can say that I have posted this after a lot of thinking.

As the title says, it’s purely arguable thoughts. You are most welcome to provide your opinion and argue with the thoughts I have posted here. I am not getting philosophical; it’s all my practical thoughts.

Perfection:
The word “Perfection” which we face in our day to day life is nothing but someone’s perception. There is no physical measurement for perfection. It’s all the perception of the person who is superior to us towards his necessities. If you are satisfying his necessity then you are perfect if not then you are not a perfectionist. Most of the times if you are trying to be a perfectionist you will end up hurting someone. For instance, as a human If you are helping someone to whom your friend is not in favor then you might end up hurting your friend’s emotion. It may be ambiguous to accept but it’s the fact. So perfection is all depends on the situation. That’s why “Perfection is nothing but someone’s perception”.

Attitude:
In this fast forwarding world you will often hear the word “Attitude”. People often complain about others saying “His/her attitude is wrong”. But when you evaluate the argument in the neutral point of view it will be useless at some point in time. Because one may not be correct all the time. Also we don’t have any right to comment on others’ attitude. So it finally comes under the assumption that Attitude is nothing but what you make others feel about you.

If you are a really sensible person, at some point in time of your life you will question yourself that “Why I am different to someone? Is there anything wrong with me?” i.e., you may be good to someone and awful to the other. How is this possible? Whether you are a multiple attitude person? I would beg to differ. You can only behave little unusual to those who says your attitude is wrong. It’s because your frequency doesn’t get along with them. Nothing is wrong with you; you just want to be what you are. So it’s good to keep distance to keep up your reputation else you have to explain them who you are and what you want from them. As I mentioned earlier in this passage in the fast forwarding world no one is ready to lend their ears for your justification. So the better solution will be act sensibly to avoid those people. After all “Attitude is nothing but what you make others to feel about you”.

Next topic I would like to share is the most interesting topic that every human being will face in his/her life. Yes, I would like to discuss about “CRUSH” in the forth coming passage.

Crush:
My definition of crush: “It's called as "CRUSH" because it get crushed inside us without being expressed”. Love is a divine thing but Crush is a “human thing” no one will disagree with me on this. Every human at some point in their life will have crush and it will remain in their heart till they rest in their graveyard. For everyone crush is an interesting one. Once we get a crush, at that moment we will forget our self and try to do some hilarious things to impress our crush. Butterflies will fly inside the stomach; heart beats will increase if she responds with a smile. I personally feel not to be friend with my crush. Though, if scenario made me to be friend with her certainly I can’t avoid. Also I would like to clear that we can’t love all people in our crush list.

Lover, whom we feel he /she suits us in all aspect of life but crush, is who attracts only at certain point in time. I am sure, lover will be our crush at one point in time but we might get convinced that they are our best suited partner. That person can’t be named as our crush, it is the one whom we like at an instance and we can’t express our love or we can’t feel our love but we crazed towards them. This might happen in our day to day life. We might get our crush either in bus journey or in our trip or during our shopping or at office, college or school or where ever we go in our routine life. I would say love and crush are feelings but love is from heart and crush is from brain. You can’t remember your entire crush list well I can say you will remember the one whom you can’t convert into love. I assure you will compare at least one characteristics of your crush to match with your partner. That’s the impact crush will made with in you. Well at certain scenario the situation won’t let you to express your love to the crush and those wish will get crushed inside you. That’s the reason I gave the following definition to the crush “It's called as "CRUSH" because it get crushed inside us without being expressed”.

You can’t agree with all the above points. But the perceptions and assumptions are different from others. Provide your comments or you can put your feedback to argue about my thoughts.

It’s all to share and it’s truly fair.